| Question 21749: Talaq-e-Bain
Asalam-o-Alaikum,
I want to know why Mufti says that Talaq-e-bain occurs when a husband speaks to his wife not in clear words of Talaq, either with intention of Talaq or without such intention. Why this results in breaking of Nikah suddenly with no reconciliation and to resume marital relations why it needs new Nikah?
I want to know what is the origin of Talaq-e-bain and on what facts and references it is based on. What I know Quran (2:228) provides the rights to the husband to make Rajuh after talaq then wherefrom this Talaq-e-bain originates thereby not giving rights to the husband to resume marital relations without new Nikah.
To me depriving the husband from resuming marital relations within Iddah period goes against guidance in Quran(2:228).
Explain with reference to Quran and authentic Sunnah not with regards to any specific school of thought.
Wa-Alaikum-u-Salam
8/28/2010 7:10:30 AM |
| Question 21708: salam mufti sb.muje app se ye poochna k mera nikah ajj se 8 month pehly hua.hum shadi k baad 4 din sath rahy.uss k baadd mere husband malaysia chaly gye aur mae jordan a gai q k mae idr job karty hoon.unu ny promise kia k wo jaty hi mera visa bej dn gy.uss waqt jaty hue b muje se inu ny 5oodollar liye.uss k baad b inbetween muj se pesy mangty rahy aur mae bejti rahi.aur har bar unn ka ek hi bahan k mae try kar raha hoon visa nahi lag raha.kuch din pehly muje pata chala k unn ki udr b ek bv h.jab mae ny poocha k aesa q?to muje kehty h muje pesu ki zrurat thi iss liye muje uss se nikah parna para.mae ny poocha k ab mera kia karo gy to kehty h k mae tume divorce papers bej doon ga.ab almost 2 month hue mera unn se koi rabta nahi.mera fon nahi attend karty.e mail ka jwab nahi dety.app muje ye btayen k ab muje sharai aitbar se kia karna chahye.kia mae khula k liye apply karun.kia karun.yaqeen karen k boht hi preshan hoon.uss ka name syed tahir shah h 8/25/2010 2:42:46 PM |
| Question 21023: Assalam o Alaikum
mera masla ye hai k meray husband ney december 2009 main mujhay ye alfaz bohat gussay main boley "meri taraf sai apnay aap ko farigh samjho main abhi tumharay ghar waloon ko ph karta hoon k wo a k tumhain le k jaain"
main in alfaz k baray main apnay husband sai kuch nahi poocha kiun k mujhay nahi pata tha k iss tarhain sai bhi talaq ho jati hai igaar niyat ho to.
ham logoon ka apas main taluq raha. hamain nahi pata tha k ye talaq baien ho chuki hai or hamain dobara tajded e nikah karna hoga. hamian ye baat nahi pata thi
phir feburary 2010 main dobara meray husband nay talaq k alfaz istimal kiye meray husband nay kaha meri saas k samney gusay mai k "igaar apnay ghar walon ki itni parwa hai to main abhi issey talaq deta hoon ye jaai apny ghar meri taraf sai tum azad ho".
jab husband ka gussa thanda hooa to main nay un sai poocha to unhoney kaha k meri niyaat talaq ki nahi thi mai nay serf tumhain dhamki di thi takay tum apni harkatoon sai baaz ajaao meray husband nay mazeed kaha k "main ''abhi'' talaq deta hoon se matlab mera ye tha k jis tarhain ham bolte hain k ''main abhi kaam karta hoon'' issi tarhain main nay ye alfaz tumhain dhamkanay k liya bole they meri niyaat tumhain talaq deney ki nahi thi .
aab month june chal raha hai jis main ham dono ko ye pata chala k jo alfaz meray husband nay December 2009 main boley thay wo talaq baien thi jis k baad hamain dobara tajdeed e nikah karna tha. lakin ham dono ko iss baray main pata nahi tha. main nay jab thora talaq k baray main study kia to mujhay ye batain pata chalin k talaq bain honay k baad tajdeed e nikah zaroori hai. main nay jab apnay husband sai iss baray discuss kia to meray husband ney kaha 6 month baad k "december 2009 main jo alfaz main nay boley thay k meri taraf sai apnay aap ko faarigh samjho ye jumla bolte waqet meri talaq ki koi niyaat nahi thi". lakin main samhjti hoon k decemvber 2009 main un k alfaz jis trhan ada hooey thay uss sai shayed talaq baien ho chuki hai
aab aap plz hamari islaah kijiaye k mujhay 2 talaqain ho chuki hain main nay parha tha k talaq baien honay k baad igaar dobara talaq di jaai to wo talaq talaq main shumaar nahi hogi jab tak tajdeed e nikah na ho jaai.. plz meharbani farma kar hamain bataiye k aab hamaray liya according to islam kia hukam hai. main or meray husband iss barya main bohat preshaan hai plz hamari rehnumaai kijiya.
6/2/2010 7:00:29 AM |
| Question 20989: ASLAM-O-ALAIKUM....
mufti saab mera naam madeeha ha...mera nikkah huwa tha mager rukhsati na hui aur ab hamari talaq hogeye ha...mujhey please koi wazeefa btayein.... 5/29/2010 4:40:48 PM |
| Question 19858: In Quran the word aasman is mentioned many times. What is aasmaan made of? And in Islam what is the interpretationt tahirah begum 2/21/2010 2:45:06 PM |
| Question 19847: ASSALAM-O-ALAIKUM Respected Mufti Sahab!
I have a very serious problem to discuss with you.My husband divorced me thrice (verbally) in one sitting just 4 months back.I am a working lady.I am very ashamed that I did not follow the rules of iddah strictly as prescribed by the Shariah. Though I did not indulge in any immoral and bad activity nor I contracted marriage with anybody during the whole period of iddah but one mistake I commited is that I couldn’t confine myself within the boundaries of my house and went outside during my iddah due to my job and some other domestic reasons for which I am feeling very guilty today as I have gone through some Islamic material (after the completion of my Iddah) about the rules of Iddah and found myself deviating the rules as prescribed by Islam.I repent and admit my sin and Pray to ALLAH to forgive me. The period of iddah is over.Now what is the way to correct the past mistake?I again say that i am very much ashamed of my act of not following the rules of iddah completely.But when my eyes opened , the time was over.I did tauba full heartedly and asked ALLAH for forgiveness.But my heart is very heavy due to this sin.I want to ask what is the kafara of this mistake?Should I obseve the iddah again following shariah’s rules or the time is over as I passed the period of iddah.One thing more,keeping in view the whole scenario, can I marry someone else?Is it permissible as my iddah has been passed contradictory to the rules of shariah?Will my second marriage be Halal islamically.Please guide me and also pray for me.
2/21/2010 9:13:51 AM |
| Question 19602: assalam o alikum mujhy talaq lene k liy koi wazefa bata dejye mehrbani ho ge 2/3/2010 4:34:01 PM |
| Question 19572: ASSALAMALAQUM
MERE SISTER MAHWISH KA QUESTION NO 19498 KAY HAWALAY SAY AYAT NO BY MISTAKEN 31 WRITE HOGAYA HA JABKAY AYAT NO 39 HA SUREH TAHA KA PLZ JULD JAWAB FARMAYE JAZAKALLAHUKHEER 1/30/2010 3:54:09 PM |
| Question 19498: ASSALAMALAQUM
MERE SISTER MAHWISH KO AAP NAY SUREH TAHA KI AYAT 31 KO 71 TIMES PARDNAY KAY LIYE KAHTHA 2 MONTHS PARDH KAR WOH HAJJ PER CHALI GAE THI APNAY TAWEEZ BAZOO PER TIE KARNAY KAY LIYE DEA THA WOH USS HAJJ PER SAY AAKER 1 MONTH BAAD DUBARA PAHNA HA.
HAJJ PER SAY AEE TU USS KA HUBAND IMRAN WAPIS GHAR AGAYA HA .
MAHWISH KO BAAT BAY BAAT GHUSSA BHUT ARAHA HA,USSKAY ELWA DUAA BATAYEH KAY SUB KHUCH PAHLAY KI TARAH HOJAYE USS KA HUSBAND SAREE BAD HABITS CHORD KAR NAEEK NAMAZI BAHTAREEN INSAAN BUN JAYE AMEEN PLZ DUAA AUR KAIFIAT BATAYEH.
AAP SAY PHONE PER CONTACT NAHE HORAHA HA.
JAWAB JULD DEJHEGA TAWEEZ KAB TAK PAHNNA HA.AGAY KIA PARDNA HA.
JAZAK ALLHUKHEER KASEERA 1/23/2010 12:07:44 PM |
| Question 19494: I am sufferrring from a severe problem. Actually my nikah was solemnized almost one year before with a person living in Canada. We never met alone. This marriage was not consummated.
After some time differences cropped up between the two families, my family tried to resolve the issues but could not.In October my husband conveyed me through an email that divorce papers are ready, I will send u soon. Last month (24th December)I received a divorce deed from my husband containing the statement " Now this deed witness that, I the said do hereby divorce XYZ(me) pronouncing upon her Talak, Talak and Talak and by serving all connections of husband and wife with her forever and for good"
What is the relogious value of this? Is this tripple divorce? (according to my husband his intention was to give me tripple divorce). As this marriage was not consummated, Does the same procedure of divorce applies? Is there any way to re-conciliation/re-nikah or matter is finished?
Anxiously waiting.
1/23/2010 10:02:28 AM |
