| Question 21794: Assalam o alaikum
meri shadi ka masla he .Apne kaha tha k "aap ko waqt per shadi kerni chahye,iska Allah ki marzi sey kiya taalluq?,agar waldain help nheen kertey tou aap khud hi achha munasib raishta ker k pakdaman zindgi guzarain,baqi shadi ka umar sey koi faraq nheen padta ." TO JANAB ME KHUD KAHAN SE TALASH KROON MUNASIB RISHTA ??? plz reply. jazakAllah 9/1/2010 8:25:22 AM |
| Question 21695: Q.no. 21571 k reply me apne kaha tha k "aap ko waqt per shadi kerni chahye,iska Allah ki marzi sey kiya taalluq?,agar waldain help nheen kertey tou aap khud hi achha munasib raishta ker k pakdaman zindgi guzarain,baqi shadi ka umar sey koi faraq nheen padta ." TO JANAB ME KHUD KAHAN SE TALASH KROON MUNASIB RISHTA ??? plz reply. jazakAllah
8/23/2010 9:45:44 AM |
| Question 21594: Q.no. 21571 k reply me apne kaha tha k
"aap ko waqt per shadi kerni chahye,iska Allah ki marzi sey kiya taalluq?,agar waldain help nheen kertey tou aap khud hi achha munasib raishta ker k pakdaman zindgi guzarain,baqi shadi ka umar sey koi faraq nheen padta ."
TO JANAB ME KHUD KAHAN SE TALASH KROON MUNASIB RISHTA ???
plz reply. jazakAllah 8/14/2010 11:55:08 AM |
| Question 21571: meri age 44 he ar me unmarried hun.Men educated ar gud looking hun.
Maloom ye krna he k kya ab bhi mere ghar wale shadi k liyae koshish kren ya me ab shadi na hone ko Allah ki raza samajh ker shadi ka khayal chordoon?
Qk mere khayal se shadi jo he wo aik age tak hi achi lagti he qk is age me to proposals b buhat na-qabile-qabool ate hen to esi shadi krne se na kerna hi better he k life pehle se bhi zyada khrab guzre.
plz mjhe mashwra den k kya ab me shadi ka khayal chorh kar isko Allah ki raza smajh ker beth jaoon ya nhi.plz jwab jald dijiyaega.
jazakallah 8/11/2010 12:15:44 PM |
| Question 21010: jazak Allah aap ne mere masle ka hal btaya( q.no..20718 ) .
poocna ye he k ye 4 kalmat (YAA SUBBOOHU YAA QUDDOOSU YAA GHAFOORU YAA WADOODU) behen ka tassawur krk ya unki traf moon krk dam kersakte hen qk khane oeene ki cheez me dena kuch mushkil he.
ar ye k kya her naam 7 baar perh ker doosra naam prhna he ya charon ko ikhatta perhna he .
plz plz dono swalon ka jwab jald ar zroor den .
jzakAllah
5/31/2010 12:53:49 PM |
| Question 20718: Assalam o alaikum
Mere parents nhi hen. Meri brhi behen jab b mera rishta ata he mujh se lrhna jhgarhna ar bad dua deni shroo krdeti he jiski wja se kahin baat nhi chal pati.
ab meri aik jga baat chal rahi he per behen ne muj se bilawaja lrhna ar sab bhn bhaion ko mere khilaf bharhkana shroo kerdia he.
braye mhrbani mje kisi ism e ilahi ka wird bataden jsko prhne se meri behn mere khilaf kuch na bol sake ar na koi sazish kersake. Ar meri buhat achi jga ache ldk se jald shadi hojae.
plz plz jwab jald den qk mje iski jald zaroorat he. 5/6/2010 12:32:13 PM |
| Question 20098: If a woman who is british and her parents pakistani and husband indian and theres conflicts between these countries where does that womans loyalty be? 3/11/2010 6:01:10 PM |
| Question 19984: AOA. Muhtaram mufti sahab my ek achay sarkari uhday pay kam kar rae hoon.meri job permanent nature ke hy.Or is me salary or deegar facilities attractive hen.Meri abe shadi nae hoe.Chand mahine sy mera mind buhut change ho gya hy.Mera shidat sy dil krta hy k me ek family life guzaroon.Ghar ke chaar deevari or ghar ke zindagi aurat k liay buhut bari neemat hoti hy shaid is nemat ke qadar wohi khawateen jan saktee hen jo k mardo k sath offices my subhu se sham tak kaam kerte hen.Ghair Mardo ke maani khaiz guftugo or on ke nazrain aurat k liay buht bara imtehan hote hen.Aj kal ke Society k azad khayal or modern Baap,Bhai or Shohar Aurat ko ghar ke zeenat k bajaye ek money machine k tor pay samajhne lagay hen.Jub islam aurat ke kafalt ke financial responsibility os k mehram mard k supurd krta hy or ALLAH he RAZIQ hy to kia aj kal k modern dor me hamari zarooraton ke list itni taweel ho gye hy k hum apne ghar ke auraton ko ghair mardo k darmayan kaam krne k liay ghar ke char deevari se door kr dety hen?kia larkion ko higher education dene ka sirf ek purpose hy k wo nookrian kren or mardo k sath azadana kam kren?kia taleem ka bunyaadi maqsad awarness or know-how ke bajaye sirf paisa kamana hy cahay is ke keemat bai''pardagi or zilat he ho?Or auraten mardon ka muqabla krne ke bajaye apne asal makam se kue ghafil ho jate hen.?Is country me Day cares barhty ja rahy hen or aulad internet or mobile ke tabahion ka shikar ho kr bigarte ja rae hy kue k aj kal k parhy likhay working maa baap aulad k liay paisa kama kar jub sham ko ghar lotay hen to on ke absence bachay k liay tabahi ka saman paida kar chuki hoti hy kue k bachon ke tarbiyat maa or baap ke supervision me hoti hy particularly maa ke presence bachay k brought up k liay buht zaroori hy.Paisa to earn ho jata hy laiken aulad hath se nikal jati hy.Ek unmarried working larki k liay shadi k jo proposals atay hen wo sirf ise condition per hoty hen k larki job continue rakhay or ye jahaiz me milne wali nokri larki k saari zindagi k husan ko kha jati he.
Me ek ba''ezat zindagi guzarna chahte hoon or mardo k sath nokri krne k sakht against ho gye hoo chahy wo nokri buht.high standard or high income he ke kue na ho.Aurat ke ezat os k ghar k andar or parday ke zindagi me he hoti hy.
Meri family chahtee hy k me job na choroon kue k aj kal permanent officer category ke jobs ka hasool buht mushkil hy or aise job chorna bai wakoofi hy kue k ye ap ke future security k liay buht zaroori hen jub k me kehti hoon k mera ALLAH mera RAZIQ hy,me os py bharosa kr k ye mahol chorna chahty hoon.Am I wrong islamically?Am I taking an irrational and unwise decision.please guide and also pray for the betterment of my life.
(As per privacy measure,i didn''t mention my name )
3/2/2010 3:28:10 AM |
| Question 19385: ASAK, Mufti Sahab! Mera masla yeh hai ki main aur mere shohar mere saas sasur ke saath rehte hain. Waise mere sasur retired hain aur saas ghar mein rehti hain. Main aur mere shohar dono job aur business karte hain. Mere do bete hain - 8 aur 5 saal ke jo school jaate hain. Zyada tar mere sasur unhe school chodte-lejaate hain. Pehla bachcha humne meri marzi ke khilaf sirf mere saas sasur ki khushi ke liye kiya aur doosra Allah ki den thi. Main ab phir haamila hoon. meri saas chahti hain ki main job chod kar ghar mein rahoon taki unhe bachche sambhalne nahi padhe. Aisa agar karoon to mere shohar ko ghar ek kamaai par sambhaalna mushkil ho jaayega. meri saas ne kabhi mujhe pasand nahin kiya. Hamesha mere shohar ko mere khilaaf bhadkati hain aur meri ammi se nafrat karti hain. Meri ammi ke kapde, unke zevar, har choti se choti cheez par nazar rakhti hain aur mere shohar ko mere maayke walon ke khilaaf bhadkaati hain. Hamesha mujhe taane maarti hain meri ammi ke baare mein. Main thak chuki hoon sun sun ke. Mujhe is ki wajah se kaafi stress rehti hai. Mere ammi abbu mujhe aur bachchon ko milne aayen, to mer saas baahar walon ko kehti hain ki poora khandaan uth kar aajata hai hamare yahan khana khane ke liye, jab ki yeh sarasar jhoot hai. Unka kehna hai ki agar baar baar beti ke ghar aane ka shauk hai to beti ki shaadi hi nahin karaani thi, apney paas hi rakhna tha beti ko. Main apne sasur ki bahut izzat karti hoon aur woh dil ke mareez bhi hain. Isliye main unhen takleef dena nahin chahti aur alag bhi nahin ho sakti. Mere saas aur sasur ki saari problems - insurance, hospital, doctor, medication, har cheez main handle karti hoon jo main ne kabhi apne ammi abbu ke liye nahin kiya. Uske bawajood mujhe meri saas neecha dikhati hain. Ab shaadi ke baad, main apne ammi abbu se rishta to nahin tod sakti....unhone mujhe padhaya, likhaya, aur sabr karne ki taaleem di hai. Main bahut thak chuki hoon...meri saas apney zamane ki baaten lekar baithi hain, jab unhe ghar mein pakane aur bachche sambhalne ke alawa koi aur kaam nahin tha. Waise bhi woh anpadh hain, gaau ki hain aur hafte mein sirf juma ki namaz padhti hain. Uspar bhi meri ammi par ungli uthati hain, ki meri ammi ka dil saaf nahin to unke namaaz padhne ka kya faaida. Ab namaaz aur ibaadat qubool karne wala to Allah hai, phir main kab tak yeh baaten sunti rahoon? Kya, mujhe kabhi in se chutkara mil payega? Kya kabhi mujhe sukoon milega? Shaadi ko 10 saal ho gaye hain....bas yehi haal raha hai. Kuch bataayen ki main kya karoon....thak gayee hoon Allah se rote hue dua maangte maangte. Jis tarah main ek maa hoon, usi tarah meri saas bhi ek maa hain. Main unhe unke bete se door nahin karna chahti, lekin kuch batayen jisse agar woh apni retired zindagi India jaakar guzaaren, to rishte bhi bane rahenge aur ghar mein sukoon bhi bana rahega. Mufti sahab, please iska jawab dein. Mujhe badi pareshaani hai aur is ka asar mere hamal par ho raha hai. Jazak Allah Khair! 1/13/2010 1:26:39 PM |
| Question 17933: ASSALAM-O-ALIKUM.
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