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Question 21817: Assalamu Alaykum, I desperately need help. I am based in the UK. I have OCD. This manifests itself in 3 ways. First, I take long in the toilet, making ghusl & wudhu, i.e. washing my hands incessantly. Second, every verbal utterance by me or my wife is dissected and analysef for kufr. I ask approximately 15 muftis for a fatwa because I want to be 100% sure. Inevitably, asking so many muftis results in 1 out of 15 concluding kufr. My negative mindset precludes me from focusing on the 14 in favour. This has happened on 3 occasions. For example just yesterday my wife was reading a message on facebook part of which said: "thank you Allah for making my samosas turn out the right shape." when she finished reading the message she said: "trust her to come out with crap." 4 muftis said no kufr but the one inconclusive fatwa is what mind is entrenched with, Third whenever I am given naseehat by my wife in particular such anger and anti Islamic sentiments grip my heart that it feels like I have left the fold of Islam. Muftis have suggested seeing a psychiatrist. I am reluctant to see a non-muslim psychiatrist yet I cannot find a reliable Muslim psychiatrist in the UK. I am gradually falling in to a state of depression bordering on the suicidal. My marriage is up & down and I am completely lost. I am irregular with Salah and my akhlaaq rapidly oscillates from the sublime to the disgraceful. I have been sitting in bed all day doing absolutely nothing. The month of Ramadhan is passing by and I an pre-occupied with obtaining fatwas regarding whether such & such statement constitutes kufr. please provide a solution. Even whilst writing this, I initially wrote please help me as opposed to please provide a solution. Now I am wondering whether asking help from another besides Allah constitutes disbelief. 9/3/2010 1:42:42 PM

Question 21636: @21243, 21242 I asked questions on june 23, can you please answer me as soon as possible, please. It is already been loong time. Plz answer as soon as possible. Thanks 8/17/2010 5:44:12 PM

Question 21439: assalam alaikum is no 21438 ka jaldi jawab dan my bohot pareshan hon allah ap ko khosh rakhy ameen plz jald dan plz samajh nai kia karon my namaz parhny ka dil nai karta is museebat ki wajha say jazaka allah lakhon khair 7/19/2010 7:02:04 AM

Question 21243: Salam-o-Alikum Mufti Sahib, My brother is 24 years old,,,,,,,,,,,,,and he plays games allll the time,,,,,,,,,,,,,,and he does not go outside from the house,,,or he has no physical or good activities, neither does he pray 5 times,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, so Please help me 1) he starts hateing Games, or computer. 2) He starts having outside good activites, 3) be obdient to parents 4) perform SALAAH 5) STRATS GOING TO COLLEGE 6/23/2010 5:51:26 PM

Question 21242: Salam-o-Alikum Mufti Sahib, I want to say that I love someone so much, but the problem is that ----person does not have or want to contact with me because I did not follow him. I miss him so much and I want him to come back n my life and be close to me and love me so much,,,,or if he is not good for me in future , then I forget him or never even think about him again. But I really want a strongggg Amaal, that if he is good for me, then he comes back to my life and only and only LOVe me,,,,,If not,,,then I forget him and never think about him again. PLEASE THE AMAL/WAZEEFA should be veryy strong, Thanks 6/23/2010 5:48:13 PM

Question 21237: salam hope ap thek hon gay , meri ik teacher hain ,vo mjhe achy lagti hain , pur main ny un sy kabhi baat ni ki , himmat nae hue baat krnay ki , plzz kuch purhnay ko batayain k vo mjh sy baat kur lain 6/23/2010 7:44:52 AM

Question 20899: assalamoalikum sir,sirmain or meray shohr some times raat ko bahohay dertay hain,kaifiyat yeh hoti hay kay adhay soey hain adhay jagay hain,mujhay kabhi koee apnay paas bilkul apnay shohr ki shakal main feel hota hay jaisay husband saath main aa kr lait jatay hain kabhi mahsoos hota hay koee bachi kamray main aa kr kuch dhoond rahi hay.or us wkt kaifiyat ye hoti hay kay na hila jata hay na bola jata hay.drood weghaira perhtay hain ayatul kursi bhi us halat main perh laitay hain laikin na hila jata hay na bola or move kiya jata hay.bahot koshish ot himmat krnay kay baad shi halat main atay hain laikin jagnay kay baad bahot dertay hain.meray husband kay saath bhi kuch aisa hi masala hay.un ko tou bachpan main koee larki nazer ati thi bahot arsay us ne in ka peecha kiya phir inhoon ne kissi bazurg se taweez liya or dam krwaya phir kuch arsa haalaat theek rahay us kay baad ab kafi arsay se dobara aisa ho raha hay iss ki kiya wajha hay? pl jald jawaab dijiyay ga jazakamullah khair. 5/23/2010 1:16:22 PM

Question 20504: Asalamu Alikum Mera Nam Ziaur Rahman Mera ma ka nam Nazma Begum and mera Bap ka nam Late Wakibe Ali mera peresani hai ki may mera gar se 4000 kilometar dur nakri karta hu kariban 9 sal ho giya hai iha har sal ghar zata hu 3 sal pehe nikaha kiya hu karib 2 sal se mera peresani hai may achanak mera dimag mauth ki tarf chala zatahi for example kai mera karibi ristadar intekal hua ta to oh bat mera dimg may azata hai aur may chuch ne lagtahu ki may bi mar zaynge tab mera tabiot kharab ho zata hai mera chine may dard ta lakin aj kal tura kam kiay ap istekara karke dek sakte hai? jab bi may gar zatahu tab mera kai problem nahi rehta hain. mera dil chahta hai ki may gar chala zau, aur mera gahr may koi inkam ka zaria nahi. 4/20/2010 1:17:00 AM

Question 20503: As Salamu Alikum mera question is 16 month pehle mera bwibi ko operation ke jariye ak bacha mila, now mera biwi again 45 days ka pregnant abi hum log kiay kare wash kare aur bacha rake and mera wife condition normal but helth is not good. 4/20/2010 1:04:46 AM

Question 20473: i am a patient of OCD obssessive compulsion disorder i forget what steps of wuzu i m on and if i missed some thing and which rikat of prayer i am on and while in washroom was i clean etc tell me is there any concession for me 4/17/2010 2:58:29 PM

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