| Question 21825: aoa,i am really tens n depress.I love boy from last two years and he also love me and he is enagaed somewhere else.from the forst day he said me his engagment will break soon because there families are having some issues and now two years have gone engagement havent broke both families had lots of arguments but still the engagement didnt break.and now he finally told his parents baout me and his parents are not agree for our marriage and to break his engagemnt his family say they want to break the engagemnt but they cant do because off family respect.he tried alot and my family also know about him.my family dont have any issuse,but now his family wants him to get married with the that girl with whom he is engaged.and i live him alot i dont know what to do.even i went for umrah n prayed alot.i cant tolerate to loose him please i beg you tell me any right solution which will really work
thankyou.
reply me as soon as possible i will be thankful to you.
and please pray for me. 9/4/2010 4:04:42 PM |
| Question 21823: assalamualaikum:maynay surah e al imran wala wazifa start kiya hai.mujahy chand batain confirm karni thi.1:pani per ayat aik hi dafa perhni hai aur us say haath,chehra aur pao dhuain ya hath dhonay k liyay alg chehra k liyay alag aur paon k liyay alag perhain?maynay tu is tarah kiya k aik hi dafa ayat perh kar pani per dum kiya aur hath chehra aur pao dho liyay.maynay sahih kya ya ghalt?mujhay bata dain i m really confused.2:bacha howa pani maynay ghar hi may potting soil lay kar us may daal diya.ab yay samajh nahi araha k us potting soil ka may kya karo?JAZAKALLAH 9/4/2010 11:55:32 AM |
| Question 21818: AOA''
MUFTI shaib mara name sadaf hain mare age 29 hain kafe rista ayaa lakin mara rista nahe howa.jiss ke waja sa walda bemar rahtee hain main na abb un ko mana kardeya hain rista kaleya kayoo ka woo logo ko bolte hain phir hota nahe tu parshan hote hain.ab phir naraz hain ka tu kayo mana karte hoo.mere sister ka hisband ka akk friend hain un ka name shahid hain .un sa baat chli lakin akk masla hain .un ka han baby nahe ho sakta iss waja sa un ke frist wife sa dicorce ho gyee.main phir bhe razee hoo sahdi ka leya.mara mother nahe mante please app btya ka mugha waha shadi karne chya kah nahe
mare name :sadaf
mother name.kauser
father name:javed
larka ka name
shahid hain
please app batya ka yah rista mara leya thik hain kah nahe
thanks 9/3/2010 3:54:58 PM |
| Question 21816: Assalamualikum,
Meri age 24 he main nay engineering ki hui he or meri engagement ko 3 saal ho gay hain ghar walay kehtay hain k job kar k pesay jama karo gay to shadi ho gi, main chahta hon jald se jald nikah ho jay, aj kal boys or girls phone pe aik dosray say batain kartay hain main ne apnay aap ko control kia hua hay lakin dosray fitno se bachnay k liay main apni mangater say baat karna chahta hoon jo meray chacha ki beti hay or hum 16 saal aik hi ghar may rahay hain, ager main us say baat nahi karta to buray khayalat atay hain ap hi koi hal batain. 9/3/2010 1:26:58 PM |
| Question 21802: Asalamalaikum,
I got married 2.5 years back, I have a 9 months old son. My mother-in-law is highly obsessed with my husband that she doesnt even let him sleep with me. We cant even go out for dinner, shopping etc. He doesnt spend time with me or my child, doesnt even talk to me.. whenever he talks to me, he misbehaves with me. She backbites about me over the phones, at weddings, parties etc and with my husband. To this extent that my husband CANT talk to me in a nice way. He just shouts at me, insults me and threatens me that he has many other options (for 2nd marriage)
I dont know whether she is doing something on him or not because initially he was a very good husband.
Mufti sahab, I will be very thankful to u if u help me out. I want a peaceful and healthy married life. I cant tolerate all this injustice anymore. Please tell me something to recite. 9/1/2010 5:08:13 PM |
| Question 21789: Mufti Sahab Salaam Alaykum
Plz Rply Fr My Question No.21643 I M in Big Problem & Pray Fr Me..
Allahafiz 8/31/2010 7:36:34 AM |
| Question 21768: Assalam-o-Alikum mufti sahab,,hope all is well wid u...
mjhy aik rishty k liye istakhara karwana hai aap plz mjhy sahi guide karen k ye rishta theek hai k nahi larki ka name Rabail d/o Khalida aur larkay ka name Fahad s/o Nagis...plz guide me i will be thankful to u 8/30/2010 6:58:02 PM |
| Question 21752: I need guidance in my married life.
I got married last year but have spent only 1 month with my wife because she is in Pakistan and I am here in America. I was very happy in my married life because I thought I found a religious, beautiful, educated girl who belong to a noble family.
Last month I found out the intimate past of my wife. About 2 years before our marriage she had physical relationship with somebody which lasted for more than 5 years as he promised her for marriage and later rejected her (during these 5 years she also had to go through abortion). Afterwards she repented from her sins. She hid that from me up until last month when with my love I was able to confess that.
Since then my I am leading a miserable life here. I am totally lost and confused, don''t know what I really want in life as I feel like Allah is giving me some punishment because I used to ask for chastity wife in my prayers and I got married to a girl like her.
I don''t want to divorce her because she has repented but then I get nasty thoughts in my mind about her being physical with some other man. I feel she is all used up and I don''t really get pleasure with her when we get closer.
There were 3 reasons because of which I got married
1. Intimacy
I had to work hard to abstain from zina throughout my life. And after marriage I found out this horrible thing. I don''t feel like touching my wife or even get closer to her.
(I didn''t know about her past) The one month time that we spent together I used to think what''s the fun in making love, as I didn''t have any fun and I found it a burden because wife used to take plenty of time to get excited.
2. Have a family
I don''t know how am I going to have family when I can''t even get closer to her
3. Life time trustworthy companion
I can treat her as a good friend of mine but not as a wife, I don''t know how successful this marriage is going to be
Please guide me
Jzk 8/28/2010 1:36:53 PM |
| Question 21750: assalam alaykom wa rahmatolahe wa barakatoho:-
My parents have choosen a life partner for me who is not religious, and i want a religious life partner, and i am intrested in another boy , whom i want to get married but our parenst will not agree, so we both did nikah on the phone, without any witneess, as we said the angles are witness.. We do fear Allah SWT, may he forgive us. ameen, kia aap bata saktye hain key ye nikah valid hai ya nahin? 8/28/2010 7:30:03 AM |
| Question 21744: Salam..jee mera sawal ye he ke me ik larkay ko bhut chahte hun aur wo bhi mujhe chahta he hum apas me cousin he 10 saal se hum ik dosry ko chahaty he aur ab hum shadi karna chahty he,per ghar walay raazi nhi kyu ke mre engagemet ho chuki he buchpan se aur us ki bhi engagement ho chuki he,plzzz ap koi dua bataye jis sehumare shadi ho jaaye humare ghar wao ki khushi se plzzz hum bhut pareshan he humie bataye hum kia kary 8/27/2010 6:33:19 PM |
