| Question 21454: aslaam-alai-kum.
My husband and I have been married for three years. It was an arrange marriage, but both of us were happy and willing. We both seemed to love each other, we had a few personility differences but it appeared we loved each other and cared for each other greatly. However, mother-in-law began to disike me and always filled my husbands ears agianst me to the extent hes left and straight after has issued first part of islamic divorce. we have one 2 year old child.
Is this the influence of black magic. I know my husband is a good person, but very easily led. Is there anything I can do to salvage the marriage.
jazakallah. 7/23/2010 7:18:27 AM |
| Question 21392: Asslam-o-Alikum,
Mufti sahib mera sawal ye hay k Agar shohar ko biwi pasand na ho aur wo ye samjhay k main puri zindgi is k sath naheen guzar sakta (Aur abhi koe bacha bhi na ho Ya ho) to dono surton main kya wo apni bewi ko talaq de sakta hay. Is surat main kya us ko gunah to naheen.
Please reply soon. thanks. 7/15/2010 11:58:35 PM |
| Question 20663: salamz.....me khawab me apny ap ko akser barhana daikhti hon or bhut thory kapro se me apna jisam chupany ki kosheh kaerti rahti hon...muje khawab me pata hota hai k me barhana ho mager mairy as pass k log is baat ko ahmeyat nhi daity...me akser daikhti hon k me kahiin nahany ja rahi hon or wahan ki jhagha chote hai . or sab us jagha daikh sakty hai. me us jagha ko kapry se band karti hon k wahan koi daikh na saky. . jab us jagha ko kapry se chupa laiti hon mager phir b nhi nahati k kahiin koi daikh na lai....mufti sahab yay khawab me bachpan se daikh rahi hon yay khawab akser alag alag tareeko se ata hai...me kabhi kabhi is khawab me apny bhaion ko b daikhti ho or wo b muje barhana hony par kuch nhi kahty... 5/1/2010 4:59:44 AM |
| Question 20573: ASSALAMALAQUM
MERE SISTER MAHWISH WALDA KA NAAM ZAIBUNISA HA,ONE WEEK KAY
INDER USS NAY TWO TIMES KHWAB MA SNAKES DEKHAY HAIN EK GREEN COLOUR KA HA USS NAY FOOT MA BITE KIA HA ,USSKI MOTHERIN LAW (SAAS) BHI HAIN,DOSARI MARTAB HYD WALA GHAR JISS MA PAHLAY RAHTAY THAY DEKHA HA CHACHA KA GHAR HA USS MA BHI SAAS NAZAR AREHAIN CHACHA BHI 2 BIG SAANP PHUN PHALA KAR USS KAY FEET MA BITE KIA HA USS KI KHAUF SAY AANKH KHULGAE FAJAR SAY PAHLAY AUR EK MARTABA FAJAR KAY BAAD DEKHA ,BHUT PRESHAN HA,PLZ JULD REPLY KARAIN AAP KA TAWEEZ BHI PAHNA HUAA HA.
JAZAKALLAHUKHEER 4/25/2010 10:35:44 AM |
| Question 20072: ASSALAMALAQUM
AAP NAY MERE SISTER MAHWISH KO SUREH MAEEDA KI AYAT NO 16 ,16 TIMES 11 DIN TAK PARDHNAY KAY LIYE DEE THI,WOH COMPLETE KAR LEE HA ,USS KAY HUBAND IMRAN KAY BEHAVIOUR MA UP AND DOWN CHAL RAHA HA,KHABHI THODA CARING HOJATA KABHI ANGRY,SLEEP BHI APNI MOTHER KAY KARTA HA KAIFIAT AUR AGAY KAY LIYE DUAA BATAYEH
JAZAKALLAHUKHEER 3/9/2010 4:46:01 PM |
| Question 19738: AOA MUFTI SAHAB MAIN NAY AAP KO BATAYA HO HAI KEH HUM LOGON KO MOLANA SAHAB NAY KAHA THA KEH AGHAR AAP KAY PASS DO GAWAH MOJOOD THAY OR AAP KO WAHAN PER PADERI NAY NIKKAH KAY KALAMAT PERHA DEIYE THAY OR AAP NAY UNHIAN ACCEPT BHI KER LIYA HAI TO AAP KA NIKKAH HO GAYA HIA ISLLAMIC TERIQE HI ZAROORAT NAHI HAI BCZ JAB US NAY AAP KO DO GAWAHON KI MOJOODGI MAIN NIKKAH KAH KALAMAT PERH DIYE THAY TO AAP KA NIKKAH HO GAYA HAI OR AIK MOLANA SAHAB NAY ABHI MUJHAY BATAYA THA KEH MASJID MIAN NIKKAH PERHAN SIRF AIK SUNNAT HAI AGHAR US PE AMAL NAHI KIA GAYA TO IS KA YEH MATLAB NAHI KEH AAP KA NIKKAH NAHI HOOA UNHO NAY KAHA THA KEH AGHR MARD SHADI KAS PEGHAM DAY OR AOURAT USSAY QABOOL KER LAY 2 GAWAHON KI MOJOODGI MAIN TO SHADI HO JATI HAI OR ISSI TERHA AGHAR SHOHAR TALAQ KAY 3 DAFA TO TAAQ BHI WAQEHA HO GAI HAI 2/14/2010 11:37:43 AM |
| Question 19715: assalam o alikum mufti sahab ap ki bohot bohot meharbani k ap nay mery sawal number 19569 ka jawab diya .... mufti sahab mein nay ap say aik sawal or pocha tha sawal number 19636 plz us ka jawab bhi dey djeiye mehrbani ho ge ...sawal ye tha k ab ap nay mery istekhra k bary mein bataya k wo acha nahi hai or mujhy rukhsakti say pehliy soch lina chhaye asal mein mufti sahab ab mein khud bhi ye he chahti hon k un say talaq liy lon mujhy mery ALLAH k taraf say hidayat hai or ab paka dil mutmain hai k jab istekhara bhi acha nahi aya to mein un k sath rukhsakti bhi nahi karna chahon ge par mery husband inkar kar rahy hin mera nikah pakistan mein hoa tha or ab mein usa mein hon to mein ap say ye pochna chahti hon k mujhy pakistan nahi jana pary khula lene k liye or mein usa say he islami tor k tareqy say un say khula hasil kar lon...kiya mein yahan rehty hoiy khula ki apeal kar sakti hon ? kya khula ho jay ge ? agar han to mujhy batye k mujhy kahan ja k apeal karni ho ge khula k liy ...plz mufti sahab mery madad farmiye or ho saky to mujhy koi wazefa bhi dey dejye k mery husband mujhy khud he talaq dey dein... sawal ka jawab jald dey dejye ALLAH talah ap ko is ka ajar ata farmiye apni is behan ko dua mein zaror yaad rakhye bay shak ALLAH har faisla acha karny wala hai or wo sab say achi rehnumai karnye wala hai ALLAh hum sab muslims ko neek rasty pe chalny ki tofeq ata famin amin ap ki sister ... 2/12/2010 6:19:32 PM |
| Question 19605: AOA MUFTI SAHAB UMEED HAI KEH AAP KEHRIYAT SAY HONGE MAIN NAY AAP SAY TAFSEELAN KUCH SAWALAAT KAY JAWABAAT POOCHNAY HAIN PLZZZZZ MUJHAY JITNI JALDI HO SAKAY REPLY KER KAIN MAIN NAY AAJ SAY 7 SAAL QABAL APNI SHADI REGITERRATION KERWAI THI BCZ YEH MER LOVE MARREGE THI SO REGISTERATION KERWANAY KAY BAHAD JAB MAIN MASJID NIKKAH KAY LIYE GAYE TO WAHAN PERMOJOOD MOLVI SAHAB NAY KAHA KEH NIKKAH KI ZAROORAT NAHI HAI TO PHIR HUM GAHR AAGAYE OR MERE BROTHER IN LAW NAY GHAR PER HI MERE NANDOHI OR NAND KI MOJOODGI MAIN NIKKAH KAY KALMAAT PERHA DIYE ( MAIN NAY YEH SAWAL AAP SAY BOHOT ARSA PEHELY BHI KIA THA OR AAP NAY KAHA THA KEH HAAN NIKKAH HO GIYA HAI) AB MAIN NAY YEH POOCHNA HAI KEH 5 MONTHS PEHELAY MERE HUBBY NAY MUJHAY PERIOD KI HALAT MAIN 3 AND UP TIMES DIVORCE DI THI TO HUM PHIR AIK MILANA SAHAD KAY PAAS GAYE TO UNHO NAY KAHA KEH NAHI DIVORCE NAHI HOI AB PLZZZZZZ AAP MUJHAY BATAIN KEH KAI HUMMARI TALLAQ HO GAI HAI YA NAHI OR YE HBAAT BHI YAAD RAKAHIN KEH WOH KAHI BAAR MAZZAQ MAIN BHI MUJHAY TALLAQ DAY CHUKAY HIAN ABMAIN AIK WEEK SAY RESEARCH KER RAHI HOON OR DOOSRAY ULMAH SAYBHI POOCHA HAI TO SAB NAY KAHA HAI KEH HAAN HUMMARI TALAQ HO CHUKI HAI HUMMAIN ALAG HO JANA CHAHIYE PER MERE GHAR WALAON KA KEHAENA HI KEH JAB TUMHARA ISLAMIC NIKKAH NAHI HOA TO DIVORCE BHI NAHI HOI MAIN APNAY HABBY KAY PAAS JA SAKTI HOON OR UN KA KEHANA HAI MAIN AB ISLAMIC TEREKAY SAY NIKKAH KERKAY UN KAY SAATH REH SAKTI HOON HALLAKEH MERE NAHI KHIYAAL KEH AAISA MUMKIN HAI BCZ DIVORCE HER SURAT MAIN DIVORCE HI HOTI HAI PLZZZZZ MUJHAY IS KAY BARAY MAIN TAFSEEL SAY GUICE KERRAIN AAP KI BOHOT MEHRUBANI HO GI
WASALAM AIK BETI ISMA SAYED 2/3/2010 8:56:07 PM |
| Question 19573: AOA MIFTI SAHAB ALLAH AP KO IS KAAM KI JAZA-E-KHAIR DAY MUJHAY AAP SAY AIK SAWAL POOCHNA THA JO KEH MERI SAMAJ MAIN NAHI AA RAHA MERI SHADI KO ALMOST 7 YEARS HO GAYE HIAN OR 2 DAUGHTERS BHI HAIN AIK 5 YEARS KI AUR AIK 2 YRS KI HONAY WAI HAI MAIN APNAY ASAL TOPIC KI TARAF AATHI HOON PLZZZZZ MUJAH IS KA JALD AZ JALD JAWAB DAY DAIN ALMOST 3 OR 4 MONTHS AGO I WAS IN PERIOD AND MY HUBBY GAVE ME DIVORCE 3 TIME ON SAME DAY AB MUJHAY NAHI PATA KEH TALAQ HO GAI HAI KEH NAHI BCZ HUM AIK MOLANA SAHAB KAY PASS GAYE THAY TO UNHO NAY KAHA THA KEH PERIOD MAIN TALAAQ NAHI HOTI OR MERI SUSAR NAY BHI KAHA THA KEH TALAQ NAHI HOI JAB ORAL TALAQ KI KOI AHMIYAT NHAI HOTI JAB TAK KOI SHOHAR WRITTEN DOVORCE NAHI DETA TALAQ NAHI HOTI PERMUJAHY AIK ALMA NAY KAHA THA KEH TALAAQ HO GAI HAI OR MUJHAY AB UN KAY SAATH NAHI REHANA CHIYE PLZZ MUJHYA BATAIN KEH AISI SURAT MAIN TALAAQ HOI HAI YA NAHI BCZ MAIN ABHI TAK APNE HUBBY KAY SAATH HI REHAETI HOON OR MAIN NAHI JAANTI KEH YEH SAHI HAI YA NAHI PLZZZZZZZZ MUJAHY JALD SAY JALD AAGHA KER DAIN AAP KO IS KA ALLAH HI AJAR DAY SAKTA HAI OR AIK BAAT OR WOH KABHI KABHI MAZAQ MIAN HI MUJAHY TALAQ TLAQ KEHETAY REHETAY HIAN OR MIAN BOHT COMFUSED HO GAI HOON KEH PATA NAHI KON SAHI HAI OR KON GALAT YAAD RAHAY MAIN SUNNI SAYED HOON OR WOH AHELE HADEES HAIN MERE DIL BHI AB IS RISHTAY KO NAHI MANTA PLZ MUJHAY GUIDE KER DAIN
SHUKERIYA AIK BETI ISMA 1/30/2010 6:29:29 PM |
| Question 19569: assalam o alikum mera nikha hoa teen month pehliy par abhi rukhsakti nahi hoi hai ...ab kuch halat achy nahi hin husband k sath ...kafi larai jhagry hoty hin or bat bohot zada ghalat hoti chali ja rahi hai ...to isi liy mein nay istekhara kya or khoab mein first day dekha k mein aik jaga hon jahan 12 say 15 gamlon mein pody lagy hin jo k pani na dene ki waja say buri tarha sokh gay hin or tehniyon mein paty bhi jhar chuky hin or miti sokhi hoi hai gamlon mein...phir mein dekhti hon k aik sheshy ki botal mein beel hai or us mein kuch pani hai jo k saf nahi hai gadla sa pani hai mein us mein say pani nikalti hon or thora thora kar k dosry podon mein jo sokh chuky hin dalti hon par phir bhi parishan hon kion k wo pani zada nahi k us say sokhy hoy pody dobara taro taza ho jain plz mujhy is khoab ki tabir bata dejye meharbani ho ge ALLAH ap ko is kam ka ajar dey ammen ALLAH HAFIZ 1/30/2010 10:57:52 AM |
