| Question 21619: Assalam o alaikum warahmatullah
Sawal arz ye hay k main shadi say pehlay thanday mizaaj ki maalik thi. laikin ab 2 bayton k baad meray mizaaj main bay hud chirchira pan or uktaahat paida hogai hay jis say main khud bhi nalaan hoon or meray shohur bhi. Ghussa jald aata hay or ghussay main cheekhnay lagti hoon jo k mujhe khud bhi pasand nahi or meray shohur ko bhi. barahe karam kuch raah numaai farmaiye. 8/16/2010 4:02:46 PM |
| Question 21393: ASA
I am a daughter of two very amazing parents Alhumdulillah. My mother, however, tends to be judgemental of other people a lot of times which has created bad feelings amongst relatives, and also people outside. She is a pious, good-hearted woman but sometimes doesn''t realize where she is going with her words. She is skeptic about most of the people around her and has a very loose temprament. I, being her daughter want to restrain her from such an act, which is not only hurting others, but also her, spiritually. When I confront her, I am asked to stay quiet because I am not very knowledgeable of things and moreover, the world. I am a very concerned daughter and want Allah''s raza for not just me, but my entire family. Sometimes I see myself falling into my mother''s footsteps as well, judging others, talking behind their backs and using ill-words for them and I ask for repentance. She sometimes uses words for me which are beyond acceptance, but I never speak back and will never. Please guide me on how to keep myself and my beloved mother from sin.
JazakAllah 7/16/2010 2:52:04 AM |
| Question 20809: aoa mufti sahab...hope u r doin good. mere bhai ne 2008 main board ka exam dia tha n 2 subjects main fail hua tha...supply de kar bhi fail hua tha...aisa nahi hai k us ka zahan kamzor hai but woh hamesha parhai se bhagta tha...us k baad us k paas aik aur chance tha supply ka but us ne hum se jhut bola tha k dubara supply nnahi ho gi but sare subjects repeat karne parain ge....hum us ko kisi achi university main dalna chahte the although yahn par fees bohat high hai but is wajah se humain use GED(short course) kara ke ail un accredite uni main dalna para. ab yahan situation badal gayi hai wahan par bhi FSC ki degree must ho gayi hai....ab hum chah rahe hain k ye supply de kar age FSC kare....is k aik dost ne nakli certificate banaya hai agar ye aisa kare to kya yeh najayaz ho ga kyunki jab aisi halat ho jaye k kuch psbl nahi tab to Islam main bhi kahin kahin chut hai na....humara aik hi chota bhai hai...he is 18 now...abu is in 60s. visa lagne ki bhi tension hai bophat kyunki studnt visa bhi is uni se nahi hai aur ksi tarah se bhi nahi lag sakta coz is k [paas 10 ka certificate bhi nahi...muje kuch parhme ko bhi batain k sab chioz bilkul theek ho jaye...jazak Allah! 5/16/2010 7:22:58 AM |
| Question 20793: aoa mufti sa''ab...kya hal hai?
plzzzzzzzzz meri puri post parhain aur humari madad karain
humara gharana bohat khush khaal hai but beech beech maon bohat hi khofnak halat ho jate hain. ye 1997 main shuru hua tha. mer e parents ki shadi ko 31 saal ho gaye hain meri dadi n phuphu log shuru se ami n abu ki separation k lie jadu karte the. 1997 main humare ghar main bohat tufan aya but Allah Tallah k reham o karam se khatam hua lekin ami abu k jhagre barhte hi gaye. AISE HALAT MAIN AMI DIMAGHI TAWAZUN KHO BETHATI THIN N FINALLY AISA HONA SHURU HUA K AMI AISA DIKHATI THI K UN PAR KISI MOMIN JIN KA SAYA HAI. LARAYI MAIN US(jin) NE ABU KO LALKARA K MAIN TUMHARA NUKSAN KARAUNGA TO ABU NE KAHA JO KAR SAKLTE HO KAR LO N PHIR SAAL BHAR ABU BOHAT LOSS MAIN RAHE THE. BICH BICH MAIN BAAR BAAR US KI AMAD HOTI RAHI PHIR RUK GAYI. jab ghar main bohat larayan hoti thi to hum kuch na kuch parhne ko dhundhte the. kafi arse se sab kuch bohat acha tha but phir takreeban 2 saal se yeh silsila bhar gaya hai. isi arse main main ne majmua wazaif main parha k Surah Kahaf ki talawat kar k ghar ki chat par dam karain to 1 month tak wahan kisi aseb ka saya nahi ata aur prbs se mahfuz rahta hai, yeh maine jadu se bachne k lie kia tha. Alhamdolillah sara time bilkul sahi rahta hai mafghar kuch din hi par ho jain to phir mahina ghuzarne k baad mushkilat shuru ho jati hain, yeh must ho gaya hai, aj bhi ami abu ka jhagra hua n ami ka wahi dost jin ami main bol raha hai k main tum sab logon ko barbad kar dun ga agar mere dost ko kuch hua. mujhe bohat nafrat hoti hai yeh sun sun kar. plz mujhe jadu ka hal batain k mushikilain dur ho jain aur kya humain is dost jin k lie kuch karna chahye kyun k jab ka maine bataya us k ilawa to koi nuksan nahi dia but ami ki halat bohat kharab rahti hai spevially uski amad k baad, plzzzzzzzzz meri puri post parhain aur humari madad karain...Jazak Allah 5/14/2010 4:41:02 PM |
| Question 20530: AOA.
Mery fiance ki job nahe hai. Job k liey wazeefa bta den. 4/21/2010 11:37:03 PM |
| Question 20151: if a man searching for job n no mony for trvl n he did nt mark train ticket is it a sin
if we purchse something from thief market bcoz cnt afford normal prizes is it a sin 3/17/2010 10:55:08 AM |
| Question 19938: aoa mufti sa;ab, umeed karti hun ap kheriat se hain . maine
Question No: 19845 pucha tha jis par apne mujhe mukhtasar karne ko kaha . pahle to main guzarish karti hun k woh puri tarah se parhain kyunki humare ghar main boat masla hai. phir bhi brief karti hun. humare ghar main bohat larai rahti hai ami bohat ghusa karti hain, humare dadyal wale jadu bhi bohat karte hain. har koi aik dusre se khicha rahta hai, koi hal jald batain. 2/27/2010 4:54:02 AM |
| Question 19845: aoa mufti sa''ab,
umeed karti hun ap khairiat se hain...mujhe ap se bohat zaruri sawal puchna hai....humari family main takreeban 13-14 saal se bohat mushkilain hain....kuch arse ko thik hota hai phir bohat larayan shuru ho jati hain....pahle to mainly ami abu k darmayan hoti thi zayada....abhi kuch arse se ami ha wakt kuch na kuch baat le kar hum par ghusa karti rahti hain. koi baat nahi hoti tab bhi bohat zayada hyper act karti hain aur agr kabhi unahin lage k unki baat nahio mani ja rahi to bohat ghusa karti hain. kabhi to shuru main aisi halat hoti thi k woh apna dimaghi tawazun kho deti thin. lekin abhi kuch arse se jab bhi unko ghusa ata hai to ab to humain aisa shak hota hai k woh jan bujh kar aisa dikhati hain k unki aisi kefiat hai. ghuse main a kar unhon ne aise aise kaam kie hain k un ko bhulana mushkil lagta hai us k bawajud woh humain zayada tar kosti rahti hain. itne salon se bardasht kar rahe hain lekin abhi mushkil hota ja raha hai. takreban hum sab behan bhayon main ghusa bohat barhta ja raha hai yeh sab dekh kar. aksar unhon ne mana hai k bethe bithaye unhain pata nahi kya hota hai unhain sab se nafrat hone lagti hai. har haal main woh khud ko hi sahi manti hain. mere dayal se bohat se log humare ghar ki barbadi k lie jau bhi karate hain, shayad us ka bhi kuh asar hai. meri behan ki shadi ko 1 mahina baki rehta hai n jub hum logon main koi choti si bat ho to khti hain k tum logon ko kisi ka ahsaas hi nahi tim acha nahi guzarte n hud har wakt ghuse main rahti hain. humain kuch personal lif nahi rakhne deti. net use karain us par dantati hain. tv par shadi ki tayari k bare main bth kar bat karo tab bbhi. mera aur jis behan ki shadi ho rahi hai nikah hua hai agar humare husbands ki call a jati hai tab bhi aksar ghusa karti hain. unka dil hota hai sab ya to un k aas paas rahain ya phir sirf ghar k kamon main lage rahain. shayad yeh sab parh kar ap bhi sochaion k hum bigre hue bache hain magar alhamdolillah hum 5 time ki namaz parhte hain, parde k paband hain and ghalat kamon main nahi parte. unki family and humare sab janane wale kahte hauin aj k zamane main ap k bachon jaise bache nahi dekhe phir bhi ghuse ain klahte hain woh tum logon ka asli chehra nahi jante. plz mufti saab jald az jald mujhe kuch batin k humain in museebton se nijat mikle. Jazak Allah! 2/21/2010 7:45:05 AM |
| Question 18878: aoa mufti saab. kya haal hain? i asked u 2 questions before and u replied 2 both. tnx a lot 4 dat. now i have a request again, canu give me ur email address because the question i want to ask you is very personal. please do reply. jazak Allah! 11/21/2009 8:20:23 AM |
| Question 18861: what happens to non-belivers. will they go hell. what if they have good character? 11/20/2009 5:58:05 AM |
